Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Mia is two



Today Miss Mia turns two. How blessed we are to have her in our lives. She is so full of joy and energy and spunk. Sure, she's pretty good at putting on the shy, quiet persona in front of new people, but for the rest of us, she is loud, talkative, very brave, and quite a bit wild.

Let's take a little inventory here. At two years old...

...she says more words than I think a two year old should know. It would be quicker to make a list of words she doesn't know than to write every word in her vocabulary. She narrates our lives all day long and has earned the title "The Informer." Her most favorite word in the past couple of days is "Meself," used in every single situation in which you try to help her. 

...she loves her big sister and when she is not too busy wrecking her sister's toys, or pinching or biting her, she is doing her best to imitate everything Laci does. They are learning to play so well together, which makes for some of my favorite moments each day. 

...she is a little momma at heart. She almost always has a baby or two tucked under her arm and is an attentive momma who feeds, washes, and changes lots of "poopoo" diapers. 

...Cousin Harper might possibly be her most favorite person in the whole world. She loves to "help" take care of her and loves to give her hugs and kisses. Harper is just as in love with Mia, and I see a close friendship already forming. 

...she loves to "help."  A lot.  She helps switch laundry and empty the dishwasher, which is sweet. She also wants to help me use the bathroom, which is not as sweet. 

...she runs, jumps, and gallops like a horse. Is terrified of any animals she's not familiar with (so unlike Laci). And is completely unaware that she is two years younger than her sister. 

...she asks "Why?" a lot. Especially if she asks for something and I tell her no. 

...she is equal parts sweetheart and spitfire. She says "I love you" complete with hugs, kisses, and a pat on the shoulder. It will melt you. She is also a master at antagonizing her sister, stealing toys from other kids, and using violence to assert herself. Biting and pinching are her go-to defenses. She is also a master at running away when she knows she's been bad or doesn't want to get her diaper changed. 

...she is naked most of the time. At her own request. It saves on laundry. 

...she loves books and will try to read to herself when no one else will. She sings her " ABC's" and tries to count, though the letters and numbers come out in random order sometimes.

...she eats carrots like they are the last food on earth.

I could go on for days.  But I won't.

I wish I could bottle up her zest for life and drink it when I'm feeling less than amazing. She lives in the moment, as most kids her age do, and I get such joy each day watching her innocent, honest approach to life. She has a will and determination that I know will serve her well when she's older, even if it makes being her parent difficult at times. 

It is crazy to think what life would be like without her. Much quieter for sure. I have spent some time in the last week thinking back to when she was born. Not just how hard it was on her little body, but for Laci as well. Laci was just a few weeks shy of her second birthday when Mia was born. So young, still a baby, and her whole world was shaken up for a while. And here we are expecting another one in just a few months. Mia's little world will change for sure, though hopefully not in the dramatic fashion that Laci's did. I have a lot to think about when I let myself. 

In case it isn't obvious, I, we, love our Mia to pieces. I'm sure there's a briefer way to express how in love we are with her, but that just isn't my style. It's quite amazing how someone so little can make such a big mark on your heart in two short years. I can't wait to celebrate many more years with her in our lives. 

Happy birthday sweet girl!!
With so much love, Your momma, daddy, sister, and brother, too.


Wednesday, July 24, 2013

cousins and stuff

Way back at the beginning of July, we had a little extended family gathering with cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents, parents...whatever other titles might be appropriate for people you're related to. We haven't gathered together like that in two years, and the last time was for a funeral. This time we had a much more joyful reason to gather:  to celebrate new baby Willa, born to one of my many cousins and his wife, and Miss Harper, who hadn't met most of the family yet. Two great reasons to overindulge in delicious food and catch up with one another.


Little Miss Willa.  I love the black/white, but I also love her red hair.


Miss Harper 

As we usually do, we got on the topic of what constitutes a first cousin, second cousin, first cousin once removed, blah blah blah. We consulted the googles and contemplated creating a chart for future reference. I have no doubt this topic will come up again. But I have neither the time or energy to do so and will therefore handle it as I always have: "These people are my COUSINS."  Well, at least most of them are, some are my aunts and uncles, sisters, daughters, a mom, and a grandma, but you get the idea. Yay! for cousins and having so many of them.

For my aunt Donna:
Back row: Bernie, Dale, Dana, Damon, Austin, Matt, Jon, Brandon, Dave, Robert
Next row:  William, Mia, Becka, Kristina, Beth, Candy, Cassidy, Jessica holding Willa, Aletha, JoEllen, Jen holding Justin, Bob, Me
Sitting in chairs:  Donna, Martha, Claudia, Sharron, Steve (kneeling)
Front row:  Kailyne, Ryan, Laci, Caleb, Meghan, Harper, Elizabeth





 

Baby nap time.


 So, I may have accidentally stepped on my own daughter causing this traumatic meltdown.


Also, this is a lot of boring family pictures, but I figured this was a good place to put them all together.










 Kids are just so cooperative.


If you are so lucky to call yourself a member of this crazy family and would like a printable copy of any of these pictures, shoot me an email, Facebook me, call me, whatever, and I will send them to you. If you print from the blog, it will be ugly, ugly, ugly.

Hope to see you all again soon!!

Tuesday, July 16, 2013

bubbles

This picture confirms my belief that bubbles are magical and I should include them in pictures more often.


Next time, I will plan better and include more clothing.

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Thursday, July 11, 2013

oh, hello

Clearly, my efforts at blogging more often have been sub-par. But this time I have good reasons.

My Aunty Jenny and two of her boys came to visit last Tuesday for a few days.  The weather turned wicked at something like 110 degrees for far too many days in a row. We were all certain we would burst into flames if we stepped outside for too long. On Friday, we caravanned down to Santa Rosa for an extended family gathering. I joyously donned a sweater two evenings in a row. I returned home on Sunday, pretty much exhausted. I have pictures of most of that, but not tonight. Sorry. 

What I do have is a fun picture of the girls' tea party in the pool and news that some may still be waiting for...

Yesterday, we met with a specialist for an in-depth ultrasound and everything with baby looks perfectly healthy. Baby has a fully formed diaphragm with all organs in their proper positions. Aaaaaand, Baby #3 is a BOY!

Without a doubt, our world of pink, tea parties, and ponies will be getting a little jolt in a few months. 

Monday, July 1, 2013

sister stuff

Hello July!  How rude of you to show up with 106 degrees today and a predicted 111* tomorrow.  Just a week ago, it was raining and I made chicken pot pie for dinner.  What happened?  No sense in trying to understand the weather I suppose.  Instead...

... Look at these beautiful girls.  Sometimes I look at them and I have to believe I've done something good in my life to deserve them.


They are becoming friends, whether they like it or not.


It is for them that I write this blog.  Sometimes I forget that.


But I'm trying to remember.  And I'm hoping that if I keep reminding myself, maybe I'll make a better effort at recording our summer.


And I'll hopefully pick up my camera again and feel good about capturing moments like this, where they aren't biting or pinching or screaming, but instead working together and creating a sisterly bond that will serve them well for the rest of their lives.



Since today is a Monday, and today is the first of the month, I figured it's a good place to start.